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With COVID-19 restrictions easing in Australia after some fairly strict lockdowns, we could finally resume spending face-to-face time with the World’s Greatest Grandchildren (WGG). Naturally, we prepared for the reunion by purchasing loads of toys to fast track their appreciation of us.
Seeing the WGG again after just a couple of months, I noticed how much theyíd developed. It was fun watching them rediscover the toys at Grammy and Pa’s house. Our Mighty Grandson (MG), nearly three at the time, quickly took back control of the workshop blower I use to remove dust and wood shavings. And he insisted on wearing my face shield and ear muffs—you can never be too safe. Using the blower would keep him occupied for quite some time.
During one visit, MG beelined for the blower and got to work scouting out the workshop, driveway and veranda. His mission: to hunt down rubbish. A look of intense concentration would change into one of pure satisfaction after he found rubbish and blew it away.
Rubbish evokes a different response from me. I see ugly mess and extra work. It’s annoying. But MG sees opportunity, finds fulfillment and feels joy.
Our own view is not the only valid one when it comes to perspective and attitude. Rubbish, or life’s challenges, considered from only one viewpoint may mean we miss possible opportunities. Could changing our view, and opening ourselves up to someone elseís, transform the outcome or even ourselves? MG and I would have both dealt with the rubbish, but his
satisfaction was far less resentful than my own. And I know he had more fun.
When faced with life’s challenges, I like to take AIM:
Acknowledge its presence. It’s not going away, and it requires you dealing with it, sometimes with great care.
Initiate action. It can take time seeking alternative options and the views of others, but don’t spin your wheels forever. Commit to do something, even if small.
Move on when it’s done. Learn from it, taking measures to improve ideas, relationships and future outcomes.
Dr Warrick Long is a senior lecturer and course convenor for the new MBA at Avondale University College. He and wife Kerri enjoy the company of their two WGG “immensely.”
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